Dan, Dane, David, Husband, Jimmy, Sven, Viktor, Wyatt

I Was A Slut For Sleeping With Him

Write it down, I'm told. Anything you can remember, just write it down. The thing is you want me to remember, to recall events, to be able to tell you about them - but you fail to understand that these particulars, the particulars I am ashamed of, were not that important to me. Not in… Continue reading I Was A Slut For Sleeping With Him

Adventures in Dating, Andre, David, Husband, Jimmy, memoir, memories, relationship, relationships, Sven, teenage years, Viktor, Wyatt, youth

Dissociation and Flippancy

I just picked up Amy Schumer's book "The Girl with the Lower Back Tattoo." I came across it yesterday at our local Kmart, I reached out and picked it up without a second thought. Not even considering the price as I would usually do. That's because I've long considered her my spirit animal - a… Continue reading Dissociation and Flippancy

Best Friends, Dane, Jimmy, relationships, Timmy, Uncategorized

The dude wasn’t friends with Females

In real life, when I tell my stories, I am never sure if I should use people's real names... as is natural... or their pseudonyms from the blog/books. I'm not always sure who has really followed the stories as a whole and would get confused by the use of real names or who haven't read… Continue reading The dude wasn’t friends with Females

Adventures in Dating, Dan, Jimmy, relationships, Uncategorized

Damn, Son…

Jimmy posted a picture of himself and his daughter on FB - they were dressed up for some formal occasion and my first thought was "Well, Jimmy cleans up nice..." I commented that he had a gorgeous date, because he did. And I wondered to myself if I missed out on something not acting on… Continue reading Damn, Son…

Jimmy, Justin, nostalgia, Uncategorized

Them attractive 90s boys

I don't know if you all have heard, but supposedly JNCOs have been in the midst of a comeback. For several months I have tried to convince Vollie-Dan that he should go baggy style instead of wearing those horrid skinny jeans - and then I heard this glorious news and attempted to convince him JNCO… Continue reading Them attractive 90s boys

Andre, Dan, Jimmy, Justin, memoir, relationships, Sven, Viktor

Hopefully he won’t read it…

I typed up a message, copy and pasting for the most part - since I had sent basically the same message to a handful of other men. The messages and emails were notifications that I wrote a particular book and that I had written about them in it. I told them if they wanted to read… Continue reading Hopefully he won’t read it…

Jimmy, Justin, memories

Jimmy (part 3)

I woke up at 3:30 AM this morning. That's when the previous conversation with Justin happened. When I still couldn't sleep, I wrote the post about it. Then, a little bit before 7 AM, I sent the links to Jimmy so he could read them... and read them he did. Silly me, I had mostly… Continue reading Jimmy (part 3)

Jimmy, Justin, memories, relationships

Jimmy (part 2)

"I found it interesting that he actively didn't like me." Justin's words appeared on my phone. "I had a reason to dislike him, but as far as I know, I never really had any chance to give him a reason to hate me because I never really interacted with him." "I don't remember what it… Continue reading Jimmy (part 2)

Best of, Jimmy, Justin, memories, relationships

Another Doppelganger (Jimmy) and a school girl crush

  I mentioned in my previous Eurovision post that Stig Rästa from Estonia reminds me of one of my friends back in the US. I pointed it out to him and he was like "Holy Crap!" Haha. Anyway, before I go any further with what I am about to write I need to come up with… Continue reading Another Doppelganger (Jimmy) and a school girl crush